Things to think about

Unpopular opinion: I don’t think your life has to have a purpose, or you a grand ambition; I think it’s okay to just wander through life finding interesting things until you die. I think this goes for art too; you can just make the kind of art you find interesting and you don’t have to plan some great arc to your literary career.

Just in case you're bored.

Everything is a reflection and an extension of you. You create your own reality.

And the idea that women especially should should say sorry less has gotten lots of attention recently. But is saying sorry actually bad for you and a thing you should try to stop ASAP? BuzzFeed Life talked to clinical psychologist Elizabeth Lombardo, Ph.D. and Deborah Tannen, Ph.D., professor of linguistics at Georgetown University and author of Talking From 9 to 5 to learn more about saying sorry and whether it's bad for us to say it a little too much. Or a lot too much.

My brain hurts.

We like to think when that special someone comes around, we'll have the emotional capacity to cherish our relationship. But for many couples, this is possible only partially.

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Whatever you do, don't think about how your tongue feels in your mouth. You're thinking about it, aren't you?

Few days (I think it was actually weeks ago), I saw this tweet that was talking about knowing the difference between being lonely and being alone. I actually screen shot it but I can’t find i…

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